Hear ye, hear ye, here comes the judgment!

We don’t have to look very hard to see judgment being tossed about like a hot potato at a summer picnic. And from all I’ve witnessed, judgment is not biased as far as who is aiming it at whom. The issue, as I see it, is how good we are at judging ourselves.

We read in 1 Corinthians 11 that we are to be imitators of Christ, discerning truth in all situations. The Apostle Paul cautions believers not to be judgmental of others but to look at themselves first.

“But if we judged ourselves truly, we would not be judged.” 1 Corinthians 11 ESV

When we consider our motives.  As we consider our relationship with the Lord. Considering our dedication to following the Word of God, is it even unto death? How do we judge ourselves?

What measuring stick is best for self-judgment?

The best measuring stick is not a stick at all. It is a role model. God’s word–the Bible and God’s Word–Jesus!

If we are looking for truth that will bring balance to our lives and set us free from the bondage of judgment, we must seek to abide in the word of God by following the example of Jesus the Christ.

“So Jesus said to the Jews who had believed him, ‘If you abide in my word, you are truly disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.'” John 8 31-32 ESV

The people challenged Jesus, saying they have never been enslaved to anyone, “How is it that you say, ‘You will become free’?” Jesus answered them with the knowledge they did not have. Knowledge from the Father. His Father. “If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” Ready to judge yourself?

Are you seeing yourself the way God sees you? When you judge yourself according to His truth, you will experience a balanced life. #StayingReal #GodLovesYou #TruthSetsUsFree Share on X

We are judging ourselves if you and I ask Father to reveal anything holding us back from experiencing true freedom in Christ. In the process, we are refined as silver under the precious watch of a silversmith. Our impurities rise to the surface, where they are exposed for what they are, sin. We can then ask for forgiveness, turn from committing that sin again, to live out a more balanced life in Christ.

Does self-judgment stop us from sinning?

No. Self-judgment doesn’t stop us from walking in our fallen nature altogether, but it does help us with perspective when we are tempted to judge others. I am who I am. You are who you are. And by the grace of God, through Christ, we are highly valued, loved, and called His children. That, my friend, is a mic-drop!

I’m reminded of the song, “I Can See Clearly Now.” Take a moment to consider this version by Jimmy Cliff (please note – I’m sharing this video for entertainment value and because I love the enthusiasm depicted by those shown – all the obstacles overcome by the Jamaican Bobsled Team.)

Like the Jamaican Bobsled Team, we must be willing to look past the impossibilities and grab on tight to the probabilities of Christ in us. We can see clearly with Truth as our plumb line.

Where do you stand on judgment?

Let’s be clear; judgment is not being critical to the point of bashing oneself. Judgment is being alert to the smallest details that hinder us from experiencing the best God-Us relationship possible. If you are ready to risk it, ask yourself these questions:

  • Am I spending quality time in prayer every day?
  • How often do I write out what God’s word reveals to me?
  • Do I consistently apply the truth I find in Scripture to my relationships?

Your answers to these three questions will help you judge for yourself whether or not you are experiencing the balanced life Father has for you.

Perhaps you’re not sure of what Father is calling you to do. Check out my post on What is Father Asking of You?

I’d love to hear how you are finding balance in your life.

Let’s journey together.

Abba Daddy, thank You for providing the truth to free us from self-condemnation.
Heavenly Father, open our eyes to see ourselves clearly and prepare our minds not to be bogged down by trivial pursuits but to be open to supernatural opportunities. You are the Way, the Truth, and the Life. Holy Spirit, guide us daily according to Your will so that we may walk a balanced life spiritually, physically, and relationally.
Hallelujah. Amen.

10 responses to “How Truthfully do I Judge Myself?”

  1. Anonymous says:

    I am in a whirlwind in my life. But I am in Bible study, learning more about our good God and how much He loves me. I am learning about how He wants me to live others as He lives me. Your writing today is timely (ah… there He goes again … putting the Right thing at the Right time) as my study this week is on appkication of God’s word to my life. Thank you!

    • Thank you for sharing. I pray Father will continue to give you the ahh moments needed in this season of discovery to assure you of His deep abiding love.
      blessings, Linda

  2. Tina says:

    Thank you so much Linda. I’ve been praying Father’s guidance and supernatural resilience in a stressful situation involving my elderly mother, who loves and lives the Lord dearly, siblings and declining health, in another country, where, as in the rest of the world, darkness is very prevalent. But thank you for your coaching, prayers and the music video. I can see clearly now and I know what the Lord is wanting me to do. Blessings.

    • Tina, I’m praising Father for guiding you and comforting you during these difficult times. I’m glad the video encouraged you… seeing the Lord clearly in all aspects of our lives is indeed a blessing. Prayers continue for you and your precious mother.
      Hugs in Him,
      Linda

  3. Anonymous says:

    It isn’t always easy to recognize being judgmental, especially if you grew up with it all around you and never knew the difference. I need a lot of work in this area.

    • Oh, my friend, I totally get it.

      It took me a while to recognize my bullet-point thoughts were lined with subtle judgment. I must ask Father daily to show me and to help me choose my words carefully. I’m still a work in process.

      I’m praying for His guidance to open avenues of understanding for you and the ability to move into a less judgmental mindset.

      Blessings, Linda

  4. DiAnn Mills says:

    Linda, this post hits close to home – how I long to be. Thank you for the reminder.

  5. Mary Weaver says:

    Well, after reading your post, I went back in memory to my high school days. I know every school has a clique and our school had a large medium sized one, being made up of middle classed folks and poorer ones. I harbored ill feelings toward the “snooty” group who was very prominent in our school, those who rarely or never spoke to any of us. My husband had been carrying around a burden about disliking a person for saying something bad about us. No truth to gossip. He passed away on January 5, 2020, BUT he had finally forgiven this person for his gossip. It was then that I finally released this ill feeling of dislike for these other girls. 63 years! I think about it now but it doesn’t bother me. Thanks for sending the “reminder” out. Makes me think of other things I need to let go.

    • Hi Mary,
      Thank you for sharing.
      Life’s journey includes so many potholes, I’m amazed we all don’t wind up covered in asphalt!
      I praise the Lord for your husband’s choosing to forgive the gossiper and your choosing to release your ill feelings – oh they can weigh us down so heavily, can’t they?
      Glory to God as you let go of “other things.” And may Father bring you His peace that passes all understanding in this season.
      Blessings, Linda

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